First, it is important to understand that nobody enjoys abortion. If there is one thing in all the discussions about abortion that can be agreed upon, it is this fact. I state this clearly and right out front so that there can be no misunderstanding on this issue. Religious conservatives do not like abortions. Secular liberals do not like abortions. Rich people do not like abortions. Poor people do not like abortions. Nobody likes abortions. It may seem like a simple point from which to start, but it is from common ground that common sense springs. It should be no different in the debate about abortion.

As with many touchy moral questions, the debate regarding abortion has been framed in mostly religious terms. While that is understandable to a degree (because of the theological implications of pregnancy held by most religions), it has the unfortunate aspect of ignoring the historical, medical, and societal impacts, and reduces the freedoms and responsibilities of individuals. But as with many moral choices, the reasons behind abortions can’t be summed up in a few catchy phrases like Pro-Choice and Pro-Life. These words are ridiculous when the implications of the conversation are considered in full. Let’s be real for a minute…isn’t the whole idea of freedom about being “pro-choice?” Isn’t the whole concept of happiness “pro-life?” As with many ideas in today’s political/social/religious arena, these phrases smack of politically correct nonsense, their only purpose to divide and demonize.

So if we agree that no one likes abortion, we can probably agree on a few other points as well. From a medical standpoint, let’s accept the notion that it is better to not have an abortion than to have one, if only because internal medical procedures are inherently harmful to the body. (FOR THE RECORD: I am not referring to any studies from any institution or any study results that purport any physical findings related to abortive procedures. This is just a general statement regarding invasive procedures.) We must also agree to accept scientific evidence regarding the viability of human life when considering public policy. And we must agree that any legislation should have the intended goal of reducing then number abortions.

The first major hurdle to overcome in the abortion debate is still the religious one. As with many religious doctrines, the table is split on this issue as well. But while most Christians (and we will use Christianity as our religious example since it is the predominant religion in America) hold the creation of new life as a gift from god, there is no consensus as to whether this belief is largely metaphorical or strictly factual. This division among the main group of opponents, when coupled with the non-religious opinions of other citizens, necessitates the reliance upon a judgment from the secular social structure to ensure that religious dogma does not become public policy, thus foisting its ideals on a non-believing citizen. At its heart, the issue of abortion is a personal one, made by a woman and her heart and her mind. It is among the most individual choices a woman will ever have to make in her life, and it should be left to her, and those she is close to, and whatever religious beliefs she may or may not have. Society does not have to condone the act of abortion, but it does have the obligation to allow women the option.

This does not mean that abortions should be unregulated, because as we earlier agreed, abortions are not really desirable. So the questions left to us are: what restrictions, if any, should be placed on abortions; how can we reduce the number of abortions; why should we reduce the numbers of abortions; and, how can we deal with the religious concerns of those who oppose abortions?

First, abortion, even though it should be allowed, should have some national legal restrictions in place. The reason for this necessity is simple: abortion should be an option of near last resort, not a regular form of birth control. As such, legal abortions should follow these common sense guidelines:
1) Scientific evidence should determine the stage at which a human embryo is capable of sustaining life outside of the mother’s womb. This evidence should take into account such factors as physiological viability, structural integrity, and neural development. Religious conceptions of when humanity begins are not applicable in this determination due to their widely varying estimate.
2) Once the time frame is established, abortions should be not be allowed for an embryo that has passed that stage, except in the case of possible fatality or severe mental incapacitation of the woman.
3) Abortions performed in cases of rape or incest should be reported to the authorities under conditions of anonymity.
4) Abortions performed due to deformities of the embryo detected in utero should be handled on a case-by-case basis.
5) Women seeking abortion should have the right to privacy, regardless of age, with the exception that legal authorities be notified in cases of minor pregnancy resulting from unlawful sexual behavior under conditions of anonymity.
6) Abortive methods should be as benign as possible, encouraging natural methods for abortion before clinical methods are considered.
7) Women seeking abortion should be educated fully regarding the medical consequences of the procedure, if any. They should also be counseled on the other options regarding unwanted pregnancy without interjected religious morality.
8) Women seeking abortion should be counseled regarding methods to prevent pregnancy and should be limited to the number of abortions they can legally obtain in a given time span.
No other legal guidelines should be placed upon women seeking to obtain an abortion for an unwanted pregnancy. The law’s purpose is to clarify how abortions can be done legally. But it does nothing to reduce the number of abortions. For that part of the equation, we need to rely on education.

While it is true that an outright ban on abortion would also reduce the number of abortions, it would also have the effect of increasing the number of needless deaths caused by underground abortionists and an increase in the amount of unwanted or uncared for children thrust upon society. So education becomes the key…specifically, education regarding the cause of pregnancy and the ways to avoid pregnancy. This is not necessarily an education in all sexual topics, rather a factual account that sexual activity is the only cause of naturally occurring pregnancy, and that there are many ways of preventing unwanted pregnancy, including abstinence and contraception. The curriculum should also include the responsibilities associated with having a child and the commitment necessary to raise that child to live within society. These lessons should be taught to our children, beginning at an age just before pregnancy becomes physically possible. Our schools should be responsible for teaching the factual information and some of the practical information. The parents should teach their children about the practical information too, and also impart upon them their family’s religious feeling on the matter. Then, test the hell out of these kids to make sure they got the message. Don’t expect that this education will keep kids from having sexual relations sooner or later. Just expect that they will make informed choices that will prevent pregnancy in the first place, or if pregnancy does occur, that they have they tools to prevent an unwanted pregnancy.

Another way to reduce pregnancy is the restriction regarding the number of abortions a woman can receive in a given time period. Enforcement of this type of policy could range from mandated counseling all the way to mandatory sterilization. There is no reason why a woman, once educated to the factual nature and preventative measure of pregnancy, should have the need for multiple abortions. It can be said that everyone makes a mistake once, and maybe
even a second time, but the third time isn’t a mistake anymore, it’s just plain carelessness or callousness. Women who abuse the abortion system should be made to carry future babies to term and then place them in adoption centers or agree to get sterilized. When faced with this choice, some women may try to be more careful. But we must realize that pregnancy is not just a female issue. It takes a man to make a baby too. For that reason, we should institute a system for identifying the man responsible for impregnating any woman who gets an abortion. With that information, we could mandate the same counseling, plus financial obligations, and finally sterilization for men who callously get women pregnant. This would cause men to stop and take notice to their responsibility as well.

If we are to allow abortions, why should we care about reducing the number of abortions? From a strictly non-religious standpoint, the reduction in abortions is desirable because we still all agree that we don’t like abortions. But on a more practical level, abortions and unwanted pregnancies are disruptive to the development of young women’s lives and can steer them away from becoming productive contributors to society. Also, the excess of abortions offer too easy a way for men to shed their responsibilities as a potential father, and encourages them towards selfish behavior. This becomes a pattern that follows them into eventual fatherhood, and perpetuates itself ad naseum. An ever-growing population of irresponsible men and half-fulfilled women does not serve society. Reducing the number of abortions logically means that fewer unwanted pregnancies have occurred, pointing to a more responsible class of individuals and thus are more likely to be better citizens.

As for the religious objections regarding abortion, like other issues, simply legalizing an action does not mean that you have to do it. There is no reason for you to fear the ability of others to get an abortion. Remember, you are responsible for teaching your kids your religious beliefs regarding pregnancy and abortion. You will be the one who really molds the choices they will make when they become sexual beings. Your religion is not encroached upon the legalization of abortion. Your values are not lessened by factual information. Your beliefs and your faith are surely stronger than that.